Mostly things I got wrong first

Essays on living a modern life without letting it eat you — the phone, the noise, the grid, and the honest middle of all of it. No gurus here. Just notes from someone figuring it out in real time.

THE IRONY ISN’T LOST ON ME

I hate social media. I’m building a brand on it.

Both things are true. Here are the limits I actually keep so this app doesn’t eat me alive.

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WHEN IT’S ALL TOO MUCH

I get so overstimulated

The day everything ran over, I snapped at everyone I love — and what happened in the car afterward.

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THE HONEST MIDDLE

Nobody’s life looks like their grid

Mine doesn’t either. The mismatched pillows are shoved just out of frame — and I’ll tell you that every time.

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